Stupid boys turn into stupid men!

[Luise]

Hi,

I just have to get rid of something, I hope this is the right place for it!
I'm a mother of two and about a month ago my boyfriend, the father of my children told me that he did fall in love with another mother and that he did never love me as much as I loved him. Now we didn't really talk but I want to. I'm feeling very sad about this. I mean he is the father of my children. The youngest one is just 6 months old. My mother is a great help right now but I'm overwhelmed. I don't know how to do it. it's also a lot of pressure I have on my shoulders.
I can't sleep at night as my baby is crying or because I have 100 things on my mind. My mum is staying over but she can't give me right now what I want. She told me she wants to help me but I'm breastfeeding and don't know how she could help me during the night and with my pain.

I'm sad and angry,

Luise

[cherry]

Hello Luise,

I'm so sorry for you and I understand why you are mad and sad and angry. There is the possibility that you stop loving someone but with a baby that young there are other ways to tell you. It has to be so hurtful and I cannot give you any advice on this one right now because every situation is so different that you have to find out what is best for you. My advice is to take the help from your mother and talk to friends. Maybe you also get some time for your own to reflect about yourself and your situation. 
When you are struggling that much with breast feeding why don't you use baby formula in addition? You can find really great and healthy organic formulas for example on myorganicformula.com. 
Try not to loose yourself in self pity, be strong and take the help you get! It's exhausting and mentally straining anyways!

Good luck for your future!
Cherry

[Luise]

Hi Cherry,

you might be right! It hurts so much though!

[lalize]

That's pretty sad. I can recommend finding smart ones here wickedlist.com/ At least I went on a couple of dates and it was fine.